Monday, March 13, 2006
RE: definition of friendship
Been a long time since i last typed here... after reading jan's entry... it really left me thinking.... And i had so many things in my mind.. i dunno what to type now...
What i feel is... Good friends really dun come by easily... there bound to be challenges in any friendship... and it's about how friends overcome them... everyone has their own way of living... and it's illogical to control their lives right... thus the thing here is 'compromising'.. right~?! If i have to flare up at everything that friends around me are doing and that i didn't like it.... oh man... i think i've already turned into an old woman... Haha.
Rmb i nearly lost a friend back in P6.. becos of what i can't rmb very clearly.. but it must be quite a stupid reason then... And it really took time to recover from it... and it really took time to finally accept that it's stupid to be in the cold war and apologise and to build up the friendship again... and could tell that it's never like before becos there's already a scar there... (although we are still friends now) From then on... i learnt to be more tolerant of friends so that i wun get myself into quarrels over trival matters... and to see ppl around me more clearly so i wun regret making friends in future...
Hmm.. regarding the 'fragile' part.. it really depends on the individual lah... really like in what perspective are u looking at the matter that can break the friendship... if even things like results is more important.. then forget it lah... it's each individual's own ability to do well.... it can't possibly be the case that all ur friends get the exactly same result as u right... then what? everyone copy each other's work during exam lor... then jealousy will not happen already... there are so many ways of handling such circumstances... and jealousy.. oh man..will never get to learn anything...
I must say that it's really fortunate of me to still have this group of friends by me whenever i need someone.. it's really difficult becos we are all at our very own way in life... and everyone is so supportive of each other.... i never see that in my circle of friends in jc... they are just full of themselves... not even the regarded best friend there... she is seriously testing my patience... Argh... dun talk about her... some of u will see her soon..
Now that we are all in different ways... i hope that nothing can stop the friendship from growing... And of cos.. hope everyone is fine!
Labels: WanYing
=[WanYing][宛颖]= posted @ |9:57 PM|
Thursday, March 02, 2006
defination of friendship
it has been a while since someone came here to upate our little blog. janice shall start the ball rolling. first of all dear yu shi happy belated birthday! a quater year older le wor, must behave k. hahaz. soon we gonna meet up once more after our last outing to celebrate charmaine's bdae. hopefully can see everyone present *smiles*.
i realised tt friendship can be really fragile. u can be great friends with someone for a long period of time and suddenly due to the smallest and most ridiculous reason ur friendship just stops there and then. i wonder what can cause a friendship to end. quarrels? misunderstandings? what more can there be? the most ridiculous one is getting jealous tt ur close friend did better than u in studies and there and then goes the 2 long years of friendship. is tt how much a friendship weights?
to wan ying, dai jing, sylvia, tze horng and melody u guys entered another stage in life. i hereby wish u guys all the best and pursue your interest and remain happy always. tt's what life ought to be - happy. to yih who has grad from tp it is time to choose either working or continue to study somemore. but dun worry. i know tt no matter what you were to choose, the rest of us will definately support u de =). jia you! as for weiling, hui qin and charmaine we have one more year to go to grad from poly and enter the work force. jia you and hang in there. remember to stay happy wor. and lastly to yu shi, continue enjoying working life ba. jia you everyone. no matter what choices we were to make in this life of ours, i m glad to say our friendship aint tt fragile that it would end if one of us where to leave s'pore to pursue our studies.
with the advancement in technology nothing can stop our friendship =) *winks. see u girls on saturday. i love u guys !!
Labels: Janice
janice posted @ |6:01 PM|