Monday, March 13, 2006
RE: definition of friendship
Been a long time since i last typed here... after reading jan's entry... it really left me thinking.... And i had so many things in my mind.. i dunno what to type now...
What i feel is... Good friends really dun come by easily... there bound to be challenges in any friendship... and it's about how friends overcome them... everyone has their own way of living... and it's illogical to control their lives right... thus the thing here is 'compromising'.. right~?! If i have to flare up at everything that friends around me are doing and that i didn't like it.... oh man... i think i've already turned into an old woman... Haha.
Rmb i nearly lost a friend back in P6.. becos of what i can't rmb very clearly.. but it must be quite a stupid reason then... And it really took time to recover from it... and it really took time to finally accept that it's stupid to be in the cold war and apologise and to build up the friendship again... and could tell that it's never like before becos there's already a scar there... (although we are still friends now) From then on... i learnt to be more tolerant of friends so that i wun get myself into quarrels over trival matters... and to see ppl around me more clearly so i wun regret making friends in future...
Hmm.. regarding the 'fragile' part.. it really depends on the individual lah... really like in what perspective are u looking at the matter that can break the friendship... if even things like results is more important.. then forget it lah... it's each individual's own ability to do well.... it can't possibly be the case that all ur friends get the exactly same result as u right... then what? everyone copy each other's work during exam lor... then jealousy will not happen already... there are so many ways of handling such circumstances... and jealousy.. oh man..will never get to learn anything...
I must say that it's really fortunate of me to still have this group of friends by me whenever i need someone.. it's really difficult becos we are all at our very own way in life... and everyone is so supportive of each other.... i never see that in my circle of friends in jc... they are just full of themselves... not even the regarded best friend there... she is seriously testing my patience... Argh... dun talk about her... some of u will see her soon..
Now that we are all in different ways... i hope that nothing can stop the friendship from growing... And of cos.. hope everyone is fine!
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